Berkeley the Spaniel Mix.

Meet Berkeley!

This is one fantastic and friendly all-American mutt. Unfortunately, he's not the most confident of dogs and recently his life got turned around on him — not only did his family move to a new and strange place, but his parents are expecting a new baby!

One stressful day, Berkeley was munching on his favorite bone. When his mom came over to him, Berkeley decided he didn't want anyone to take away his bone and so he did what many stressed out, grumpy dogs do: he growled at his mom to back off!

The snarling made his mom leave Berkeley to his chewing. Berkeley growled, so he got to keep his bone on his own terms. In other words, Berkeley won! He figured out that he was able to get his way… by using drastic methods.

The incident left the family feeling a bit shaky and a bit unsure around Berkeley. Our first goal was to make sure things were safe and manageable; we recommended leaving a drag line on Berkeley or at least having one easily accessible for the next few weeks while training. Though we wanted to work with Berkeley on sharing his toys and food, our most important goal was to make sure that the family learned how to set up safe training situations.

At Zen Dog Training, we focus on understanding and communication, but we also want dogs to know that their human parents are in charge. When people speak to dogs, those dogs must listen to the rules (and should be rewarded for good behavior). For rules to stick, your dog has to always do what you say — he won't learn if sometimes he can get away with not listening to you.

For resource guarding, our solution is limiting our dogs' freedom with drag lines and tethers if they gets grumpy about having their bone taken away. This way, we can safely teach them to share. The good news about resource guarding is that it responds well to treatment. The bad news is that if it goes undiagnosed people — especially young people and children — are at risk of getting bit or injured by a dog who doesn't understand our rules.

If you want to teach a puppy to share, please check out Preventing Resource Guarding at Zen Dog Training Online. If you have an older dog who makes you feel scared or worried, call a Zen Dog Trainer right away!

Nora the Pit Mix.

Meet Nora!

Nora is a sweet, playful girl...with her family. Once she is outside, everyone she sees is greeted with snarls and barking, outside she became a ferocious ball of teeth and noise! This didn't just happen overnight — Nora was a skittish and shy puppy, but she grew older and bolder. Over time, instead of hiding and tucking her tail, she began to bark, growl and lunge!

Many people would write Nora off as aggressive, dangerous, protective, or say she was downright vicious. But Gordon and I knew better. Nora wasn't born a mean or a bad dog. She was just afraid.

Nora was afraid of the noises on the street, of the people she saw, and especially of fast movements and unusual shapes. When dogs get scared their primal fight-or-flight instinct kicks in — either get to safety or do something to make the "threat" leave.

It's hard to understand but Nora's barking was a tactic to make scary things go away and it worked — every single time. The people who scared her, the kids, the bike, the car, all passed her by (quickly) when she barked aggressively — she had learned what to do to make them disappear!

Our plan for Nora was straightforward, but also challenging. The first mission: Nora's family was to make new, positive, memories of the things that scared her in the outside world. We recommended a "desensitization and counter-conditioning" plan that included Treating for no Reason, obedience training to help her focus during stressful encounters, (using food as a reward), better tools and new leash handling techniques.

Of course, the hardest part of training was our homework for Nora's parents: not punishing or "correct" Nora, but instead acting relaxed, jolly and confident — even outside — when her barking was at its worst!

At well over a year-and-a-half, Nora will take longer than a puppy to become okay with new experiences, people, places and things — after all, she's the dog equivalent of a twenty-year-old human! But with the right training plan, the proper tools, time and consistency we hope to see Nora exploring and enjoying the world around her with a new sense of confidence.

To learn more about Treating for No Reason and for additional info on shy and fearful dogs, please visit Zen Dog Training Online.

For a simple-to-understand guide on desensitization and counter-conditioning, please read The Cautious Canine by Patricia McConnell.

Why Dog Training Can Be SO Hard!

In a nutshell, changing a established behavior or teaching a new behavior is difficult!

Think about how hard it is to stick to a New Years resolution, to eat better or get to the gym. It's even harder to try and teach a child, spouse or friend to listen! Things get even harder when it comes to dogs, because of the human attitude, "darn it! This is my dog and he needs to learn my rules!"

In our efforts to make an animal understand we may miss the importance of truly understanding our dogs and communicating with them rather than forcing our wills on them! At Zen Dog Training we focus on understanding our dogs first, then trying to communicate with them. Our focus is on teaching people how to be consistent and smart about getting their dogs to listen.

Why things get confusing is that dogs are not rational animals (like us?), instead they are still hard-wired to first feel safe in their environment before they we can expect them to want to participate in 'listening' to us or 'obeying' our rules. For what most certainly will become a future post on its own, its Pavlov vs. Skinner - first having to meet those primal dog needs of feeling safe and confident before expecting B.F. Skinner like Operant Conditioning. "Sit" and you will get a treat.

What's so hard to understand is that when it comes to dog training and especially, new puppy training, just spending time getting our dogs used to the crazy, noisy world we live in is as important (if not more important) then teaching, sit, heel or come. At Zen Dog Training we call this "age-appropriate training". Focusing on the right thing at the right time. Puppy-hood is the ideal time to socialize really domesticate your dog to your particular lifestyle. Its surprises me how most people would never expect a wolf to be fine with living inside our homes but get a dog and don't put any conscious effort towards puppy socialization. Textbook "socialization period" is a stage of puppy development that technically ends at the 12-13th week!

The dilemma becomes: when to push your will on to your dog and when to listen to your dog and understand that at this very moment - your dogs natural instinct for survival (fight/flight) must be met before they can be in a place to listen to us.

Its difficult because it requires the human to not focus on 'instant results' but rather take a look at what their dog needs. Training paths for dogs not yet comfortable with the world require counter-intuitive methods like, treating a dog when they are barking out of fear. Some say you would reinforce 'bad' behaviors however, if the dog is barking because they are uncertain and feeling 'scared' there is no evidence that you can reward or punish them since they are in no place to listen to you anyway. They are too worried for their survival.

Here is where true understanding is key to our success. Try to force a scared dog to listen and they may listen but become shell-shocked and skittish from the experience. Try to punish a dog by staring them in the eyes and yelling at them and you just might break that ever important dog-human relationship where they learn to trust and love humans.

More on this in future posts but as we learned in the dog training academy, the first question is 'is the dog upset' from there you can determine if they are 'acting out' or just being demanding or if they are coming from a place of fear and uncertainty (with dogs amazing sense of hearing, smell and who-knows-what-other kind of senses your dog has) I'm often amazed at how well they cope with strange training 'techniques' or just the sights and sounds of the world: trucks, busy intersections, construction noises, fireworks, traveling by car, traffic, etc.

The solution, do yourself a favor and research people like Turid Rugaas, "Calming Signals" to try and better understand what your dog is feeling and saying by reading their body language. Try and be more patient with your goals and try to determine the difference between "disobedience" and a failure on behalf of the owner to clearly communicate rules and expectations.